“I took hundreds of hours of research working with real couples and created a powerful, step-by-step “Communication Blueprint” that FIRES-UP your passion… SUPERCHARGES your love… and MELTS THE MILES between you.”
If you’re ready to ELIMINATE the anxiety, self-doubt, loneliness, and FEAR that DESTROYS long-distance relationships and begin a fun NEW LIFE together, then read on…
… DO YOU FEEL so needy or dependent on your partner for YOUR emotional well-being… that it makes them want to run away?
… DO YOU FEEL like your emotions start to go CRAZY at even the THOUGHT of your love spending time and enjoying himself without you… around other members of the opposite sex?
… DO YOU FEEL overjoyed to see your partner again… then find yourself fighting and bickering over stupid little things?
… DO YOU FEEL sometimes that you wish you never got emotionally attached… and maybe it would be easier to just walk away than try to overcome your doubts and fears?
… DO YOU FEEL so lonely sometimes that you think about hooking up with that attractive man or woman—just this one time! –then beat yourself up mentally for days or weeks after?
LISTEN: If you’re like I was when I was involved in a long-distance relationship, then you’ve experienced at least some of these feelings… over and over again!
In fact, it seems like just yesterday that I was in the same situation you’re in right now, a long-distance relationship. So I know EXACTLY what you’re going through!
Knowing that you’re probably screwing up the best thing that ever happened to you—and that you have no idea how to NOT screw it up. INCREDIBLE! I never thought it would happen to ME—a professional relationship counselor! But… alas… it did…
Hello, my name is Bob Grant. I’m a therapist and a Licensed Professional Counselor. I’ve also been a relationship coach for over 20 years.
During my professional career, I’ve helped hundreds of men and women find and achieve more rewarding, satisfying, relationships. In fact, I’ve become known as, “The Relationship Doctor” by my clients and friends. I have a very successful practice in Atlanta helping my clients keep their love alive, strengthen existing relationships, or rekindling that old spark.
So… you’d think I would be the LAST person to be blindsided by the roller-coaster of emotions that come along with being in a long-distance relationship!
But like you, I’m only human. So while living in Atlanta, Georgia, I met the woman I KNEW I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Oh, boy… I was giddy with happiness! (You know the feeling, right?!)
The love of my life—my soul mate—owned a thriving business on the other side of the country! OUCH! Worse, I had a busy counseling practice I just couldn’t leave.
There was NO WAY either of us would consider ending the relationship, though. We were too much in love. But to say the next six months were tough, is an understatement!
Almost immediately, it seemed, there were awkward silences and tensions between us whenever we saw each other.
Or worse… we found ourselves FIGHTING about STUPID little things that we both knew didn’t matter one bit.
It was hard enough to get up every day… go to work… pay the bills… and come home to a house without her. (It’s the lonely part… and not knowing what she was doing that killed me!)
But that was just PART of the problem. I realized that I hadn’t been dealing with the emotions that were going on INSIDE me.
And sure, I tried not to fight when we were together, or interrogate her about who she spent her time with when I wasn’t there.
But the question that kept coming up for me was: “Why is it so hard to deal with these things we have going on INSIDE… like insecurity, fear, jealousy, and other psychological challenges?”
The Shockingly Simple Secret That Changed Everything for Me (And how it will help YOU, too)
You see, when I started trying to solve my own relationship problems, I always began by focusing on the problem itself.
Because I discoverd that when it comes to long-distance relationship issues, if you just “solve” the problem in the moment… you’re not SOLVING the problem! That’s because the next time you’re in the same situation, the SAME PROBLEM comes up again… and you play mental games to “fix” it… until the next time… and the next… and the next. (Does this sound familiar?)
Instead of trying to deal with each individual problem as it happened… I would get far BETTER RESULTS if I knew what to expect before I had the problem in the first place!
Instead of dealing with my out-of-control emotions after I was in the situation (already out of control!), I needed to arm myself with knowledge… and MAKE A PLAN… so I’d be prepared.
IF you’re prepared for the major challenges… IF you know what you’re going to do BEFORE you have a problem… then many of your problems will AUTOMATICALLY solve themselves!
The thing is, every long-distance relationship has very similar challenges. So it’s not the CHALLENGES that create the problems—it’s how each person REACTS to the challenges.
Human beings are complex, and we don’t come with instruction manuals. So one of the most important things you can do is realize that you don’t have to “figure it out” on your own. If you want your relationship to succeed, it’s crucial that you find an expert source of information… and use it.
You don’t need a psychology degree, and you don’t need years of therapy, and you don’t need to spend thousands of dollars. All you need to know is where to… Read more…